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These habits can lead us into, or keep us in, destructive relationships that don’t work.
These behaviors can sabotage relationships that may otherwise have worked.
Denial Patterns: Codependency involves a habitual system of thinking, feeling, and behaving toward ourselves and others that can cause pain.
Codependent behaviors or habits are self-destructive. We frequently react to people who are destroying themselves; we react by learning to destroy ourselves.
If a guys life revolves around a constant "pity party" for himself, chances are he's either using it to get laid OR is incapable of allowing someone to love him and falls into number 6. He might actually be living in the past and feels deserving of something more.
He will also use other women in his life to prove his point with you. AND if you don't offer that to him and if he never believes it's real - he'll resent it. Guys who feel like they deserve more without making a real effort to move on or be honest with themselves will also find it difficult to be totally honest with you.
He thinks you'll like him more if he gives you something or does things for you.
He's not asking you if you like him or why but most of his actions are based on the fact that he can not understand WHY you would like him. Sometimes he will even sabotage a good thing with you when everything appears to be perfect.
Chances are you'll end up fighting about this a lot, He's afraid of being alone.
Scared of his own personal freedom and he'll expect the same from you...
Similar to number 2 except instead of not believing in himself, this guy just thinks he's bad or uses it as an excuse to avoid committing to women OR to play women. He thinks (or says) he's a bad person and by you liking him, tends to believe you'll only get hurt and he WILL use that excuse to prolong the dating phase indefinitely Or as a means or an excuse to break up with you every three months to screw someone else. He'll play on your sympathy and frustrate you to no end as he constantly pulls away and delays any REAL action. The difference between number 6 and number 7 is is that this guy IS a player whereas the last guy might actually believe what he's saying.
He plays on your empathy to get what he wants which is normally string free and unattached sex or some form of intimacy up to and including a blow job.